I used to feel really guilty and shameful after I dressed. I would get dressed up, satisfy myself sexually, then rip everything off as fast as I could.
I could not get undressed and wash off my makeup fast enough.
Then one day I said to myself "Who does this hurt? I'm just in my own home, doing this for me. "
I'm not stamping out anyone's freedom. I'm not causing damage to anyone or their property.
This activity is innocent.
My feelings have changed so much since then.
I don't take an hour to get all dressed up to then take it all off five minutes later.
I take my time and enjoy the experience. I enjoy putting everything on. I take some pics. I do stuff around the house.
I love doing housework while dressed! Not because of some outdated notion that women do the housework. But because I can be me while doing it and spend as much time as I can en femme.
I hope others can find that reason that gives them a sense of calmness and soothes their guilt so they can enjoy their "me" time.
