Jean,
The problem with some of them is their acceptance hasn't .
Part of the problem with this situation was that the person from our social group did look obviously male despite wearing a dress with makeup and a wig , maybe she could have tried harder . I know this line of thinking raises so many issues , I know there are no rules it depends very much on how much we can personally live with the public's reaction to us . Getting no reaction at all is the best compliment we can get but then sometimes we need a little more to make it feel worthwhile .
