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    Ok, there are a lot of stalkers here

    No, not really. I'm just joking. I looked at my profile today, and have had 3000 views to it. Of course I'm flattered, and admit it's one of my favorite features on this forum. If someone captures my interest, say with a good post, or is happy with their latest makeover, it's a good way to lookup old posts, threads and photos. As well as send them a virtual or private message.

    How much of the forum tools do you take advantage of?

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    I'm sure, like most software programs, I'm not using anywhere near it's capabilities. I use what I can figure out. Meaning very little. I read, respond and post mostly. I look at pics but haven't really figured out how to post a pic in a thread. Not that I can't figure it out but taking the time to do it is my challenge. Once I retire I'm certain to take the time for a lot of things as well as all of this. A couple more years....or sooner (fingers crossed)

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    Like Meghan I do check the visits to my page. It's over 2,000. If I find someone's post interesting I will check out prior posts. Sometimes, if a visitor to my pages does not register in my mind, I will check them out. I'm curious to why the person does not interact. Sometimes I peruse the list of registered users for names of persons who no longer seem to post. I'm curious if I missed a post or the person is truly gone. I do remember one whose posts were interesting, but, was suffering from cancer.

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    Thanks, Meghan! I hadn't up dated my profile in years!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    I do check my profile views and post count every so often maybe twice a year.
    I use the search function when needed and do PM several on here.

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    I have done the same. Also use it to go back and see something I must have missed or fieger about. Btw add another view to yours I just looked.

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    I'm on the site almost every day and look at features as I feel the desire. I pay attention to individuals who I have read over the years, even if we disagree politically, which we are allowed to do in the USA. I look at my profile hits almost never. BTW, what as great site.
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    I am like Joyce don't know how to post a picture and how to go back and read old post . I do look at my profile every day just don't know all the software!

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    Only 3000 views ???
    You will have to do better than that LOLOL.

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    Sorry Tracii,. I'm just not that pretty, interesting or controversial to do any better. It's taken me years to get to 3000!

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    Hi Meghan , Every morning I log on around 04:00 to 05:00first stop Raychel's Resort in the Lounge,

    Next stop to Trivia for any updates, the to the bottom Todays Birthdays back up to special Occasions ,

    next Loved ones, Next Generic Non Binary , Next Pictures & Videos, Next Clothes, Shopping & Beauty


    Next M to F Crossdressing Then back to Raychel's Resort for back & fourth chit chat with the early riser Ladies.


    Some time throughout the day I click on the Birthday Calendar on the forum banner and wish all of the active ladies
    A very special Happy Birthday, I have been doing this for 6.5 years now

    I have 10,355 visitors to my page 2,832 friends and this makes 35,420 posts.in 10.75 years now

    I am always checking Profiles, They can be very interesting sometimes. >Orchid ..oo..
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    I seldom check profiles deliberately....usually I click wrong on the iPad screen and end up there by mistake. Likewise, i had no idea how many people had visited my profile... turns out not many, about 1700 in a decade. I recently went through the tedious process of consolidating my friends list, removing people that hadn’t been active on the forum for many years. Most, I suspect may never return and if they do, they won’t notice whether they are listed as a friend or not. I’ve yet to figure out what that status accomplishes.
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    Hi, Meghan! If you had said lurkers, then you would have been right! LOL I read most posts but not all of them! I had joined Genetic Males until I decided I was transexual and would be better served with Safe Haven! I view some profiles if someone new PMs me! I use Community to check on my friends list! I generally stay out of Transmen and Loved Ones as I am a Transwoman and my family accepts or they have passed away! In other words I have utilized most of the features here! Hugs Lana Mae
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    Wow! You just made me go check. Lol

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    I check my profile to see whose been visiting my page and see what my friends are commenting on. I use the PM feature quite a bit.

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    I don't use forum tools very often. The first thing I see when going to my profile is 'my activity' which is really the activity of those on my friends list. Those that are the most active appear the most. My activity is much lower than some of you!

    1725 visitors since 2008! I'm more interested in the 30 most recent visitors. I have a total of 41 friends and most of them aren't active any more. This causes me to wonder what happened to some of them.
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder

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    Platinum Member alwayshave's Avatar
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    Meghan, Thanks for the advice. I have never looked at my profile since I first created it.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    I will look at someone's profile if they have posted something of particular relevance.
    I find the search functions very helpful for looking thru older posts for info about specific subjects.
    "The only way is onward. There is no turning back."

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    I'm like Kindl, in that I never aim to look at others profiles, it's just these sausage fingers when viewing the site on my tablet, never a problem with the laptop.

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    288 views since 2006. Not sure I can handle the popularity.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Meghan4now View Post
    Sorry Tracii,. I'm just not that pretty, interesting or controversial to do any better. It's taken me years to get to 3000!
    Not that pretty? Oh Pfffft you look awesome IMO.
    I was just teasing you about the profile view count.

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    Clearly the number of profile views is proportional to the number of posts made.

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    Had no idea what profile hits where, until I just looked it up. 14 years of educational observation and the occasional post is plenty from me.

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