So, quick synopsis: I’m a bi Cd and closeted. Wife has no clue yet of either thing.
I go to counseling and change in her office so I’m always Leah.
At home when I’m alone, I’ll wear something and sometimes be “bold enough” to go in my backyard in women’s jeans and a t-shirt and some girlie flip flops to walk my dogs. Risking my neighbors seeing me.
The other day I went to counseling and left to finish the work day from home so I left wearing my men’s polo shirt but wearing women’s jeans and pink t strap sandals lol.
Yesterday, I worked from home all day so I went to counseling wearing a blue maxi dress with spaghetti straps and sandals. The straps were too obvious so I wore a hoodie while I drive. I live in a relatively small city so I didn’t want to risk being seen. I got to her office and texted her and she told me a man was in the waiting room. I don’t trust men, so I waited and then she told me I could come up. Came up without the hoodie and with a hat on so my face wasn’t fully seen.
When I was leaving she said a girl was in the waiting room and I said I don’t have issues with women so I walked out. As I’m walking to my car I see a man and a woman contractors in the office next door so they saw me. Got in the car and put on my hoodie and left.
I don’t have a wig, I want one so bad, and I don’t wear makeup, not because I don’t want it but because I’m terrified I won’t be able to remove it all and would completely out myself to my wife.
So yeah, big deal to me and I know it sounds silly as hell, but I did it lol