Worked for me .. on a Sunday, when nicely dressed, go to the parking area of a large office complex. It will be virtually empty. Take your phone and exit the car and walk around a bit with it. Then, go to a fast food drive thru. You may be clocked, but you'll also be driving away. You will be thrilled at the experience, and it will help you to begin to "own it." You'll grow from there on. Being out is so much fun. I'm having lunch with a sister next Sunday. in full girly mode.