...or passing and not passing at the same time.
Funny little story, but also an object lesson in why you shouldn?t stress about passing so much.
Wife and I work in retail together. Today she was helping a couple of gentlemen when a crossdresser came in. I clocked her from the second she came in. While she wandered our store, my wife was ringing up the step gentlemen. Before my wife finished, the CD left. The guy not buying anything turns to his buddy and says ?hurry up!? And of course the friend wants to know ?Why?? The first guy says ?a hot woman just left and I wanna try to find her!?
The lesson? Passing is all relative, and you should worry more about wearing what makes you happy than worrying about people being able to tell.