Most of the threads here deal with the superficial (clothes & makeup) aspects of being a female.
For me, the epitome of femininity is when she is holding down a full time job, dealing with babies, daycare, school functions, perhaps a handicapped child, teens, maybe SO's activities (or if a single mom - even more responsibilities), mortgage, car payments, bills AND then trying to look presentable after baby spit up or sitting in the rain watching a soccer game.
