so im struggling its been 3 years that ive volunteered, had a meet-up and cant get a real presence of peeps that share this preference of women's things.

i read how so many wish they were in denver, detroit, NYC, areas....me im jelous of the PA group and the DC area group as they are just out of reach of convenience,
ive tried a clothing swap, that little had interest in, would of loved a costume party, christmas party but i cant get a dozen girls together to just chat and have coffee.

do i smell.....look funny, there are quite a few jersey girls here, i have met some from here, my meet-up, and just by my volunteer gig, CD, trans, non trans, gay, lesbian, some fetish folks that are not even what most would think about.....no leather, high heels or latex.
each meeting was always so much more rewarding with that up close personal touch being face to face, close to the asbury boardwalk, chef Ramsey was just there the other day on cookman av.

so those of you that have active groups how did they get the gears going.....