Well written glenda, sounds familiar.
Well written glenda, sounds familiar.
Glenda,
I put it differently , " We evolve !" You could say we also emerge from those simple beginnings and possibly from the closet , my CDing didn't start in that way but I can relate to the rest of the story .
The question is at what point do we come out and tell the truth , at the early stage some expect the panty wearing to stop maybe marriage might be the cure !
This is why I needed to know what drives this need as it evolves it does become scarier not knowing where it will end , not knowing if transitioin is the final solution .
I admit it's cost me my marriage but I'm much happier because it's allowed me to find a balance , we can spend a great part of our lives being what other people want us to be , my wife called me selfish but that raises the question of who is actually being selfish ? My wife because she still wants who she married right or wrong or me finally discovering what really make me tick .
Last edited by Teresa; 12-10-2019 at 10:36 AM.
I took the reference to "trap" as a metaphor much like the King Elvis Presley sang about in regard to love. "We're caught in a trap, I can't walk out, because I love you too much baby". Substitute pink fog and I can see the similarities.