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    Funny conversation with sister-in-law

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    This morning, I was walking home with my family from religious services, when my wife had the realization that I'm always fine with walking since I don't have to wear heels. That prompted my sister-in-law to proclaim that I must wear heels sometime to see how it feels! Furthermore, she said she was going to buy me two pairs of heels for Christmas; a regular pair of 3" pumps, and a pair of stripper heels! My wife knows I dress, and has even encouraged it, but she is the only one of my family that knows. It definitely got me thinking, could I come out to my sister-in-law? I've never felt that I could be accepted by anyone else in the family. This also comes at an interesting time, since the fog has been incredibly thick lately, and I recently posted about where to change.
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    Every situation is different. It wouldn't hurt to talk to your wife about this one.

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    Always good to check with your wife. It seems a curious conversation, particularly the addition of an offer to buy you two pairs of heels for Christmas. I?m not sure how to process that.

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    I’m assuming your wife’s sister, not your brother’s wife? If so, this is a question for your wife. She knows her sister and her family dynamic better than you, and would be the best to gauge how good or bad an idea it would be.

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    Maybe she already knows. ??? She just wants to give you something you would enjoy.

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    Yep, the sister knows, or at least suspects.

    And what an odd thing for your wife to say, knowing of your proclivity for dressing, in earshot of someone else.
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    I agree she knows, I feel no way she makes that statement unless your wife has confided in her.
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    Im fairly certain that my wife has not told her sister, and her sister is usually a straight forward, no beating around the bush kind of lady. Im fairly certain that if she knew or suspected, she'd call me out on the rug, though she is rather sneaky. I also suspect that she did see the tote that I keep some my clothes in, though I dont keep anything else that might out me in there. My wife has so far done a splendid job of helping me cover up anything suspicious, or so I have thought. I'll have to ask her more when she gets home.

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    I think she knows

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    It sounds like she already knows.
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    It really does sound like she knows. The Christmas gift offer of two pair, one sensible and one not seems way too specific.
    It's just the clothes... isn't it?

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    I'm in the "she knows" camp. Maybe not a lot, but she knows something. It really doesn't make sense to me for a close relative to give you two pairs of heels for Christmas just as a joke you already know about. Perhaps she was just playing with you. But from what you have said about the conversation I don't think so. But also keep in mind that when we are in deep fog our brains are working on a different level and we are prone to taking things the wrong way. In this case, I doubt that and you interpreted the comments correctly. Look for other signs of her knowing to support or reject the sense of her "knowing" . Look at the evidence as objectively as possible without thinking about whether she knows or not.

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    Alice, I would check with your wife.
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    Oh my goodness. Since your wife knows, ASK her if her sister knows and stop trying to guess. Then you will know how to proceed.

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    I looked at your bio. Age 26 or so. I have to assume your wife is also young as well as her sister. One of the things my wife told me about my cross dressing she did not like is having nobody she could confide in. Nobody she could discuss the matter. I suspect your wife has dropped enough hints, if not outright told her sister that you cross dress to some extent. I find it interesting or rather telling that your wife would make such a comment if she has done such a great job of concealing your cross dressing. Then your sister-in-law tells you she is going to buy you two pairs of heels for Christmas. I definitely would have told her my male shoe size. You should ask your wife if she truly knows or suspects you're a cross dresser. While you're discussing the matter suggest you'd also like some hosiery to go along with the heels. Guy socks would look terrible in a nice pair of heels.

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    Make sure she knows your correct size.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alice 23 View Post
    This morning, I was walking home with my family from religious services, when my wife had the realization that I'm always fine with walking since I don't have to wear heels. That prompted my sister-in-law to proclaim that I must wear heels sometime to see how it feels! Furthermore, she said she was going to buy me two pairs of heels for Christmas; a regular pair of 3" pumps, and a pair of stripper heels!
    Not saying it is, but it sure sounds like one of those forum letters from the back of an adult magazine. I am looking forward to reading more!

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    Or, maybe, she’s just kidding around with you without an ulterior motive.

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    My sister in law (wife's sister) has made several comments about dresses and skirts etc ... in the past, she has no idea that I dress. My wife knows and is supportive and I asked her if she told her sister and she hadn't, just coincidence.

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    Well with your wife's OK I would take her up on it, making sure she knows what size to get, and then practice practice practice and show her it isn't so hard. All in fun of course. If you are confident maybe even tell her "it can't be that hard". Sherrii

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    Well I think you should wait till after she buys your new shoes, and make sure she has your size.

    That is before outing yourself , that and get your wife's approval. Because there is no putting that cat back in the bag once it's out.

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    Unless u wish to be outed? Why would u need to tell your sis in law? Or, any family member?
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    I think she knows too!!! It was the first thing I thought when I read your post!

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    Oh, you could ask your wife if she's ever mentioned anything to her sister -- but keep in mind, she's under no obligation to tell the (whole) truth.


    Do women talk? Yup!

    Do *sisters* talk? You better believe it!


    Hey, maybe the two of them are trying to get a Girls Night Out going with you. GG's can be like that. And crazier things have happened, after all.


    I'd ask SIL if she was serious about getting you not one, but *two* fairly specific types of pairs of heels (hmmm... ). And however she replies, just say something like, "Well, do you even know my size?"


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    Alice,
    If you wife has no objections I would go with it .
    I can't believe how open and supportive my sister in law has been ,I've met her for coffee and been furniture shopping with her , as far as I'm aware my wife does know . The important point is she wouldn't do it if she wasn't comfortable , I always look at the situation like that now , on the whole people will only do what they want to do in their comfort zone .
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