First off, I like to dress but without a wig or any make up. Basically, I love the way the clothes feel and make me feel.
It was a Sunday, late morning, and I was dressed to go shopping to a local thrift store, where I have been shopping for female clothes before dressed in female clothes. I was wearing my flats, jean mini skirt, and pull over shirt.
On the way to the store, I drove by a local strip bar. I had been to this bar before a couple of times dressed as a guy and had talked with the dancers about their outfits and how I wished I could get away with wearing something that small. I told the dancers about my crossdressing and how it would be fun to come to the bar dressed. They were only encouraging. Anyways, I know where the workers park and where the customers park (different sections of the parking lot). There were no cars in the customer section, so since I have always wanted to go in dressed, I called the bar and asked if it would be OK. The manager said, 'if you want to wear a skirt, that's fine with me'.
I quickly made my way to the bar, parked, and quickly walked in. When I opened the door to walk in, the dancers and the manager/DJ were standing together and all looked me over. The manager asked if I were the guy who just called and I said yes. He asked to look at my ID and then pat me down for any weapons (same has had been done on other visits to the bar). Luckily, one of the dancers was one of the girls I had spoken with before and she recognized me. We sat for a while just talking like a couple of girls. It was wonderful. The other dancers were friendly as well, complimenting me on my outfit and giving my some suggestions on where I could get more outfits. Since it was just me in the bar, the music was turned down and the dancers were just sitting and talking with each other. The place was empty except for me and the workers. It was perfect.
One of the dancers did make a comment about me wearing my skirt like a girl. When I looked at her funny, she said I needed to learn how to sit more like a lady. Again, I looked at her funny, I thought I was doing alright. Then she leaned over and whispered, if your going to wear your skirt without panties, when you are in the process of sitting down, you need to be more ladylike and not show your parts. I guess when I sat down, before I crossed my legs, things were visible. So, the dancer who made the comment and the dancer I was sitting with gave me sitting lessons.
But the best part was when I was leaving. All of the girls said good-bye honey and a couple even gave me a hug of encouragement. It made me feel great!!!
Originally Posted by April Rose
