My last post I bought a new wig and tonight I was putting it away, more like hidding it. My wife asked me since I have a new wig why I don't throw out some of my old ugly ones, Maria is not a very good throw out person. As she was looking in my drawer she pointed out how much stuff I have and why I don't wear a lot of it and that when I dress I usally wear the same thing and if she doesn't know about something. She asked if Maria is planning to evolve or I'm I planning some big coming out and why I don't wear more of my stuff and what am I saving it for. She said we are not old but we're heading close to our 60s and maybe I should start enjoying my stuff, she pointed out how many slips I have and I barely wear them and when I was planning too. I told her it's hard for me to get dolled up to just sit in the house and if I do dress better is when I go for my Friday drives once in a while. She said all she was saying is we are not getting younger and maybe I should start enjoying my stuff I'm saving for she doesn't know what or when. She was right because I'm seeing a lot of my friends having medical problems and this really bad feeling came over me. I told her its going to be a very sad day when I have to give up my slips, and even give up my other stuff. She asked why I don't wear my slips to bed and get some use out of them and maybe start wearing more of my better hoisiey when I go for my drives. I'm sitting here now thinking about the future of my dressing and coming to the realization that one day I am probably going to have to remove my stuff. Did anyone else here come to the realization that we are getting older and what's going to happen to our fem stuff and what items are you going to be the hardest to let go. I hope I don't get anyone feeling like s*#t like I'm feeling now, but I'm going to start wearing and enjoy my stuff. Thanks.