Long time since I have posted and I would just like to share the good progress I have made with my wife's and my own acceptance recently. I have posted before about how I am going to make sure I keep communication going with my wife, however I keep not doing that hence this time I am only going to share what I have actually done.
My wife and I have had another few long talks recently and she confided in me that she doesnt like that I crossdress and honestly she hoped it would go away. She tells me she feels awful for saying that. However she has now said she is trying to be supportive and will not stop me pursuing this. I asked about me wearing a dress in front of her on an evening, she agreed to try it. I was shocked given in the past she has said no way. I suggested maybe starting off with me sleeping in my womens pjs instead, small steps for both of us, she agreed.
During our long chat at the start of the week I shared that I really wanted to try a transformation service. To my surprise my offered to pay towards it for xmas. I declined but shortly after contacted the place I had found and booked marked ages ago.
So all this week I have worn my pink silk pjs that I bought last year. We have spoken since and she seems ok with this but we are still having ups and downs around this area but mainly good talks. The other night after the kids were in bed I underdressed with padded bra and panties and told my wife, she was ok for me to keep them on. This was the longest I have warn a bra for, will take some getting used to.
The same night I also agreed a date to go to a transformation service with my wife. I am just waiting to have date confirmed and pay the deposit.
Throughout the years the biggest problem for my wife has been how dressing has made me secretive. she suggests I should come out to everyone, or at least my best friend. This is complex because she didnt want to see my dressed so secrecy is a must, however I feel this is changing. So when it came to talking about going to a transformation I explained my plan to leave their fully dressed for a short period, surprisingly she didnt mind. In fact she even said its too expensive and she could do makeup for me however I think that was a fleeting comment.
I bought a night dress to alternate my sleepwear between washes. Although my wife doesnt know I bought this she does know I have bought myself something and clarified she doesnt need to know what I buy.
There is more examples too, so dadt I feel has gone, hopefully for good. I just need to take it slow and not over do it, I can hear you all saying this every time I think about whats next.