I went for a hair cut and I've had the same hair dresser for as long as I can remember, I think she's 70 something and probably know my hole life story just like all hair dressers. She was trimming around my ears and she stopped and took a closer look at my ear. I asked her if something is wrong, she said some things it's better she doesn't know. I asked her what she was talking about, she said I have oval and sagging ear lobes that usally get caused by heavy earrings and as long as she knows me I have always worn diamond studs. I said she was right some things are better that you don't know.
Lesson learned no more heavy earrings, second women who noticed it.