Let's face it, ladies: CD'ing can -- and oftentimes does -- soak up a lot of time, money, energy, focus, etc.
Of course, these are resources that *could* potentially be utilized elsewhere, for more productive means. You know, like, what other non-CD'ing guys can (and should?) be doing.
And yet... *We* aren't.
Instead, we're getting all dolled-up & stuff.
Hey, we're stuck with this, and we're not choosing this, per se. So, I have to cut us some slack.
What brought this up, was that I was recently watching a YouTube video-series of some random guy fixing up a half-completed mansion abandoned 20 years ago.
*He* is using his time/money/energy/focus to do something positive with his life, to better his & his family's.
But me? I'm busy getting all dolled-up, instead.
Sometimes I feel like I got the short-end of the stick.
And yes... No wonder why many women aren't exactly cool with all this CD'ing stuff -- at least when it comes to "mate material."
Apparently we're defective goods, in their eyes. So, I kinda get that, from that angle.
What say ye?
