Hi all. Is anyone "out and active" at home in a DADT or strained/unsupportive relationship? I'd like to underdress, wear slacks & jeans, tops, scarf, flats or boots, some light makeup, jewlery around the house. I'm not looking for fancy dresses, heels, and wigs on a daily basis. Wife doesn't approve. Can't see a change in her, and if I press, it would likely end the marriage. I know she knows I dress when I get a chance. I ask because I'm really feeling the need for change. It's too hard hiding all the time; holding it all in. Kathleen time has been severely restricted since starting a new job with different schedule 3 months ago. I know the answer lies in open communications, but her anger and resentment come out quick. I hate to abandon 25 years, and ending the marriage would be devistating for us both in all other things.
If you do get some permission when you are together, how did that happen? I'm open to ideas.
So sad right now.
Kathleen
