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    Growing up did you enjoy watching women get dressed and do you still

    Whether it was in real life or movies, I always enjoyed seeing women putting on stockings, walking around in a slip, wiggling into a dress ! It was always fun to watch how they would model in front of the mirror checking themselves out at every angle as they spun about in their heels !

    Do you find yourself doing the exact same things you saw women do ? As a women ever commented to you about this ?

    Do you enjoy spending time walking around in women's underwear or a pretty slip or are you anxious to get into your dress ?

    Would your wife be ok with you walking around dolled up in just a slip ?

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    I always did like to watch a GG get ready to go out. The transformation even an attractive GG goes through from natural to stunningly beautiful always excited me. I always wanted to go through that and be transformed into something beautiful.

    When I am getting ready, I am usually just wearing my underwear. Most times just panties because I don't want to get powder all over everything.

    I don't run around in a slip very often, mostly because I never wear one anymore and they are just too fragile for lounging or sleeping. But I do lounge around in my silky nightgowns and panties all the time.

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    Robbie, I loved watching my mother getting ready when I was a kid. Walking around in a slip, doing her makeup, and putting on her stockings. For the same reasons, I loved movies where a women was getting dressed. Of course I emulated the moves I saw.
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    Oh yes!

    I've tried to do the wiggle thing, but sadly I don't have anything that needs to be wiggle into a dress or tight pants.

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    When I was very small maybe 4 or 5 all the women at my aunts were getting ready to go to a party. They had on their girdles, slips and put on their silk stockings. They sat down at the makeup table to put on their dresses and it looked like so much fun. I wanted to do it too.

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    The opening scene of the movie, ?Just Like a Woman? starring Adrian Pasadar as the cross dresser, is exactly what you describe. A young boy, perhaps seven years of age, watches his mother dress for an evening out. His mother smiles at him several times during the scene, showing a close, loving relationship between them. She draws him near and tenderly kisses him. The tenderness that he associates with his Mum getting dressed and the wheels turning in his mind are obvious. His wife, in the next scene, is a violent woman and his clothes inflame her violent tendencies.

    I lived with my grandparents often when younger. I often saw my grandmother get dressed and move around the house in her full slip. Helping her do her hair, her magnificent knee-length hair, was fascinating. By age seven, I lived with my Mum, who dressed for work often with me in her room. She worked the night shift. Like her mother, she put on her makeup and did her hair while wearing her slip. I remember often watching her roll up her stockings, delicately slide them on, and cinch her garters. When she as finished, she put on her uniform dress, then put me to bed and wished me good night. We did this for many years. Dad worked the evening shift and the younger kids were already in bed, so it was just Mum and me as she dressed. It is little wonder that I started dressing with a slip and stockings.

    Because I associated a woman getting dressed with memories of my Mum and my grandmother from very early childhood, my dressing never had sexual aspects. I viewed dressing as a woman as becoming beautiful, not as becoming sexy. I intentionally kept it that way. To this day, I still feel no sexual excitement in dressing. I enjoy it as becoming beautiful, not sexual, as always has been the case. My wardrobe has just the minimum necessary lingerie but lots and lots of leg wear and outer wear. My wife becomes violent if I watch her dressing or doing her hair or makeup. Because a wife is by definition, a sexual creature, her behavior reinforces my notion that dressing as a woman involves becoming beautiful not sexy.

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    Dressed and undressed as long as they're dressing girly.

    We have a local burlesque troupe that perfoms monthly and when the more professional ladies are performing, it's always a pleasure to watch when we can get to got o see them. Unfortunately, seats for them go quickly.

    It's funny how I have a spike in my dressing behaviour before and after seeing a performance. :-)

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    I grew up in a really sexually repressed home. My mother would never be seen in her lingerie and sex was never mentioned, however I had an aunt I have fond memories of. She would always be in either a very revealing long robe or sexy night gown when she would be fixing me breakfast and cleaning around the house. Since she must have taken a lot of deep breaths as a child she filled out her tops quite nicely. I will never forget the day when I was in her bedroom and she removed her dress and then her slip in front of me. I can still picture her standing there in beige stockings, white satin garter belt, white see thru frilly panties and a white lacy bra. I guess she noticed my reaction and asked if i liked her outfit. All I could do was shake my head yes. Little did I know at the time that later she would be dressing me as her daughter.

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    This is one of my favorite things. I love the getting ready process and lost it as a true joy to get feminine and beautiful.

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    Are you trying to get someone to admit their voyeuristic tendencies?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Patience View Post
    Are you trying to get someone to admit their voyeuristic tendencies?
    My initial thoughts.

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    While growing up, I can't recall watching women get dressed in real life or on the screen so I don't know what they do. My wife dresses nice enough but she doesn't turn it into a big production.

    I tend to wear more than just panties but I can give it a go and see if I like it.

    I don't see a slip as being dolled up, but I could wear just that if I wanted to.

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    Great question! And yes, I did and do. I think I was in a learning phase back then whereas now I think it's just voyeurism for me.

    When I'm in guy mode, however, I won't watch a woman get undressed, because I consider it private for her.

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    Like Roberta, I enjoyed the transformation. Not the process involved, tho.

    Unlike Roberta that's exactly how I dress! Only my transformation is a lot more extreme than my old GF's and wife!

    Like watching the process, Robbie? Here u go!

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    Absolutely!! I love to watch my wife get dressed. I find it very sensuous. I'm also a little envious. I also like to watch her get undressed, especially on those occasions when I get to help!!

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    I've always enjoyed watching a woman getting dressed, unfortunately the opportunity amounted to little or never.

    That sort of thing didn't happen in my house growing up in the 60's. Everything was prim and proper and kept in their place.

    Years later I was having a Linda day and walking around in the house with my full regala on "except" for a skirt over my half slip. My wife came home and gave me hell!

    She ranted and raved on how "real" women don't do something like that.

    I think the fact that it was also the first time she saw Linda wearing a wig also threw her for a loop.

    While she may have long forgotten that experience, I have not.

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    Yes I have been doing the same as women do dressing for 50 years now. It's just the nature of dressing. And yes I enjoy spending leisure time in my lingerie and slips. As far as my wife goes she is perfectly OK with me dressing however I care to, she was just in here with me and I'm in a satin gown with mating panties and a navy House-coat. She never batted and eye, just business as usual.
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    I have always loved watch women and girls at the time, putting on their make up. I can watch it for hours.
    At least it sure seems to take them hours to do their make up.
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    I enjoy watching a women get dressed, but this is more or less a sexual thing. I don't spend a lot of time at the in between steps of getting dressed, I have an outfit I want to wear and I put it on all at once. Part of it is probably that I don't like makeup, so I will do my hair first and dress and doesn't take all that long.

    I sometimes sleep in a half slip and will hang out in bed in it (before bed or slow start to the morning). But since it doesn't hide my maleness, it is not something I go around the house in. I have nightgowns that hide it so those are more something I would lounge instead.

    My wife isn't a fan of the lingerie side of things so she wouldn't like it.

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    I often watched my mom get dressed when she was getting ready to go out. She didn't seem to mind and would often put a bit of lipstick or a pair of clip-on earrings on me while I was hanging out in her room. It probably helped make me what I am today.

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    My experience was rather limited until I got married. My mother did on occasion walk around our apartment in a slip, but, not too often. I did enjoy watching my wife lounge around in lingerie and slips. There are plenty of titillating videos on YouTube. I have an extensive collection of vintage slips which I do enjoy wearing without a dress. My favorites are a group of Velrose and other brand midi length slips. I sincerely doubt my wife would appreciate me walking around in anything feminine.

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    I guess it's a case of (unintentionally) watching women wearing certain items of attire.

    Over here in the UK, there was a series called "The New Avengers" in the 1970s. Joanna Lumley started out as a stockings wearer on the series as Purdey and that was my first true take on stockings.

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    Moderators, I'm simply making a point so no need for deletion. This was part of the start of where I am.

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    I can remember my mother wearing her OBG, rolling her stockings up and hooking them to the garters. No wonder I tried all of her things and just absolutely loved it.
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    I to love watching my mother getting dress and i think that Diane is right that is why we are what we are today! So that being said thank you mom and God bless!

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    Always enjoy a good montage of a woman trying on lots of beautiful outfits that she just can't decide on.

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