Until I met my wife I had been somewhat open with friends about being bi and a crossdresser. My last serious relationship prior to my wife my girlfriend knew all about it and also that I was bi. She had no problem with any of it and would dress me up etc. She loved it.
However, the woman I eventually married, mainly due to me getting her pregnant, I have not told her much of anything. We have been together for almost 7 years and married for 6. She is a wonderful woman, loving, caring and strong. Before we got married I told he of one crossdressing episode when I went to Fairplay in New York for a makeover (would love to go back someday.) She was fine with that. I also told her of a time when dressed when I had sex with a man. She was fine with that.
Initially I did not think our marriage would last so did not come clean with her about her into how much I enjoy dressing. Of course when I married I again purgedThankfully, our marriage has worked and I would say significantly stronger now than in the beginning.
She is away on vacation at the moment. I did not want to go as I needed time to think about things. Such as this. I want to tell her, but am afraid. I believe she has a right to know about the CDing. I believe in marriage we remain monogamous.
You would think that I would have told her this before we married. I knew better than to withhold it. She says is open minded and progressive and would not be upset if your children were gay. So I wonder what she will think about husband who likes dressing. She is 34 years old and a nurse.
I was thinking of writing it all down or making a recording and giving it to her.
Something along the lines of.
I love you. I am glad I am married to you.
However, I have a couple of things I believe you have a right to know. You may find them shocking. I am a crossdresser. I just feel as you are my wife you have a right to know.
I am sorry if this upsets you in anywyay. But know that I love you and am glad our marriage has worked.
Okay girls and guys what do you all think? Any input or suggestions would be welcome.
