Hi Ladies,
Eight months ago, when I finally admitted to myself I am a CD, I immediately told my wife. The whole time she has been accepting and supportive while she was/is trying to make sense of the whole thing.
I recently had a couple of incidental conversions about my dressing with my wife and I'm starting to believe she is beginning to understand me. It's irrelevant what the actual CDing topic was and frankly, I don't even remember. What's import is what she told me. "The difference between what I do and what women do is, for the most part, women do and wear what they do and wear for a mate. I do and wear what I do and wear just for myself." I didn't think much of it the first time she said it. When she mentioned it a couple of more times is when I thought to myself. WOW she gets it.
While I feel like I achieved major milestone with wifey, I still plan to continue to tread lightly.