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    Oh boy this is going to be scary

    Hi all, so I just checked into a hotel/casino in Vegas and plan to go out to bars and clubs tonight-yea! The only thing , this hotel lobby is huge and there is a huge crowd of people in the lobby and elevator area. So hopefully I will be brave enough to wear my new black sequin dress - it is pretty short. I will report in later. Maybe like Minirock did. Wish me luck please.

    Sandi

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    Just walk around like you own the place. Don't look like a scared mouse or that you just stole the crown jewels. Most people in Vegas are just worried about themselves and the money they win or lose.

    Hold you head high and have fun.

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    Sandi, Good advice from Char, I cannot wait to hear how you do. Good luck girl!
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    The first time I went out, I did really well..until I became self conscious. Before that no one gave me a second look. After that it seemed everyone saw me. I ended up taking a deep breath and moving ahead...and it worked.

    You will be fine, especially in Vegas.

    Have fun!

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    Woo goo, so far so good. Talking to a couple is very nice ladies in the Phoenix Bar.

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    Have fun Sandi. It will be way better than you imagine!

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    Easy left me long ago...

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    Sandi,

    Before I started truly going out in public and by that I mean interacting with folks, I read so many times here about confidence and owning it.

    They were of course absolutely correct. So just relax, be yourself and you'll have a wonderful time. Pictures to follow?

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    Holy cow it is almost 3 am and I am at the phirana bar/club and this place is still going strongly.

    Sandi

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    Hi Sandi , Sure glad that what happened in VEGAS didn't stay in VEGAS,

    I am sure that you must've blended in perfectly. >>>Orchid .oooo.
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    I've never been to Vagas. I hope you have a good time.
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    Sandi, Good for you making it this long it sounds like you did just fine.
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    Sandi it sounds amazing! Having never ventured outside the house or a hotel room dressed ... own it sweetie! Wish I was there with you.
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    Act like you own the place and no one will think twice.
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    I find it easier to hide in a crowd than alone. Just do it and realize that nobody knows who you really are.
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    Hope you enjoyed yourself Sandi. Would love to hear how the night went for you.

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    Sandi, this sounds marvelous. But do not forget you need sleep sometime. Enjoy it all.

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    I've been to Vegas countless times, Sandi. Short skirts r quite standard in Vegas. Just be careful to keep your legs together when u sit down!

    Piranha rocks! I had a ball there!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I hope you listed to Char and had a good time. You are in Vegas honey, a CD/TG is the least surprising thing anyone who sees you will probably see that evening alone. Take a walk on they old strip area the call the Fremont Street experience and you will see things you can't unsee.
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    Sandi,

    Congrats to you for overcoming your fears about walking through the front lobby. We’ve all been there. It’s so true about confidence vs being self conscious. It’s the ‘not’ nervous energy you give off.

    Glad you made it to Phirana club, that’s probably where my wife and I have the most fun when we go to Vegas. The straight bars are fun too but the LGBT clubs have the most accepting, fun people found anywhere! Please post pics when you get a chance

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    Wow do I have a headache partly from lack of sleep. I think I got back to the hotel around 4 am. I am getting ready to hop on a plane home now. It was pretty fun. I have been to a lot of bars while dressed and been other places as well but some reason I was a little spooked when leaving the hotel. The elevators were full of a bunch of guys in the military of the UK which seemed kind of odd but they were nice. I joked with some of them saying- don?t laugh because I meet more women dressed that way than I ever did before. I met several nice women at both Piranha and the Phoenix. I chatted with a very nice looking cross dresser as well.at Piranha. I didn?t get drunk anyhow at 28 bucks a drink. All in all it was a good time with no problems at all. Will have to see if I can post a pic once I get home so I can edit the file size.

    Thanks for the support ladies

    Sandi

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    I can smell that hotel lobby now , I love Vegas .
    The only thing I don't like about this is that you are gong home so fast !!!
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    $28? Per drink? That is utterly eye watering. I guess the mafia has high overhead! But glad it was worthwhile.

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    Sandi, Sounds like a great time that you will not leave in Vegas.
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    I LOVE Vegas. At a DLV gathering 2 years ago, I was en femme 24/7. I even drove both ways full dressed pretty. I never had a problem, in fact I chatted with several ladies who wanted to know more about my dressing. I liked it so much that I went to The DLV gathering again last year with the same results. I'm going again in a couple of months with my wonderful fully accepting sister. We are going to have a great time!!

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    You go Sandi. Awesome.
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