Sarah,
At some point the decision will have to be made , the transition will have to happen . Some changes I asked for soon after I moved , I was determined to be Teresa and started as I meant to go on starting with my GP's surgery , it really doesn't affect anyone else and I feel a whole lot better when I'm contacted by them. It's lovely to gradually see your post change from MR to Ms , to be called at my blood donation sessions as Terri .

I feel it's one of those decisions you put off and then wonder why afterwards , try telling yourself you are going to live the rest of your life as Sarah and not Dave , I need to make it happen because no one else will .