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    Loving my feminine self

    The last couple of times that I've had my bags of feminine stuff out, when I had to put it away I hugged the bags and said "I love you, Nicole."

    Is that weird?

    Does anyone else talk to their female things?

    Not a conversation, just something simple and small.

    I really miss dressing up.

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    I don't necessarily talk to my clothing but I do enjoy reorganizing my collection of too many skirts.

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    So cute that is the reason we are all here and have fun doing it also!

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    Nicole, I miss dressing all theme due to family living in my house. However, I have never had that response.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    I don't think that is weird. We are all different and our needs, our ways of satisfying that need vary all over the place. I don't do it, but I think it and the step from thinking it and saying it is a small one. Now, when you hear your clothes talking back to you I think you might need some professional help. Each to his or her own.

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    So I was talking with my breast forms, and do you want to know what they said about my earrings?... nothing! They can't talk.

    Ha! Yeah, that would be a problem.

    In a way it was comforting to say those words though. Feeling acceptance and warmth knowing that I'm ok with that part of me.

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    I don't talk to my feminine stuff.
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    Not weird at all, kinda sweet and sad. I remember when I had to put the girl away and I would basically do the same thing. I often felt like I was saying goodbye to a dear friend, it hurt just as much.
    Last edited by Robertacd; 02-03-2020 at 02:49 PM.

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    Well, all my “stuff” is female gendered, and sometimes I’ll talk about it anthropomorphically (Oh look at this eyeshadow! She’s fierce!) but I don’t really talk TO it. The once exception is if I’m making something, but then it’s usually just “you b*****d!” When something goes wrong. P

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    Nicole,
    Talking to your female items beats talking to yourself ! I wouldn't say it's weird but I prefer talking to my dog at least I get a response , I love to see her tail wag !
    The real me ,no going back.

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    Outer clothes, no. Lingerie, sometimes.

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    No, I talk to myself but not my clothing. I'd worry it mite start talking back!

    As for your header? I often make love to my fem self!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I love my feminine side but rarely talk to my clothes. If that is what makes you happy and content - Enjoy

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    I don?t think it?s weird at all or to show some appreciation of things that make you happy. I don?t recall verbalizing, but sometimes when I look in the mirror, I smile, shrug my shoulders, thinking ?you look nice?. Having nice feelings is always good.

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    I don't think that there is a feminine self. That's our real self but years of learning since little to be a man created a habit, a lie that we learn to believe is the reality but is not, so you're no crazy talking to the feminine objects because those are the only real in your life.

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    I don?t talk to my clothes. I do often refer to myself as Vicki when I talk to myself... yeah I do that.... like the other day I was practicing a new song on my guitar and I dropped my phone and the first ring out of my mouth was ?that?s how you break your fu**ing phone Vicki?.

    But I did tell my new jacket that ?I love you? simply because it?s so cute!

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    I just love dressing up in femine attire what a feeling

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    Sounds a bit Shari Lewis to me.

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