Question time...

I have a supportive wife. Not involved but understanding... here?s a scenario many would have experienced:

When I watch programmes where ?masculine? men poke fun of women through joking with women?s clothes it makes me uncomfortable when I?m sat watching with my wife...

Main reasons:
First one is obvious - I?m a crossdresser (duh). And enjoy women?s clothes. And my wife obviously knows and is probably thinking the same as we watch.

Second. I?m not particularly masculine and I worry my persona as a male is stereotyped on tv to my wife as what men should be like.

Thirdly I like being feminine. Men poking fun at it offends me. I can take a joke and I obviously get humour and will laugh, and will behave immaturely (male) at times too as I am still very much that as well of course.
But a part of me disagrees with the behaviour towards things that are perceived as feminine therefore ?funny? if a male does it.

So question.

Does anyone else feel this way and how do you handle this situation when it arises?