Yes I agree its a silly question but its one to ponder.
I know I only think about it when I hear a sound while dressing or dressed, and look in the mirror wondering if this the moment someone new will know my secret !
I would think fully dressed and dolled up would be best ! Probably in one of my favorite dresses so at least I look good.
I think worst case would be in just frilly underwear like a pretty bra and panty set. Since we tend to wear very girly things that might really freak a guy or gal out.
Also I believe women have suggested being caught in one of your wifes or girlfriends dresses would be bad !
Anyway has anyone ever thought about this