1. It doesn't bother me. I don't really care to be called "girlfriends" when I'm with my husband of 40+ years. I don't mind it if other people think that but personally, he will never be my "girlfriend". I have girlfriends and I have a husband.

2. Listening to CDers put on a falsetto voice that obviously sounds fake.

3. Personally, I don't see CDing as anything other than what the CDer wants it to be. I have no control over what CDers want to think.