What is your opinion on this?
It's not my immediate dilema, but often wonder how to do it when the time comes. I saw a few threads in the past how to tell your partner, but I don't remember anyone taking a "fetish thing" approach. Would it work? Is it better to go down the road of fetish or the usual way, often seen as unsuccessful and risky move as witnessed here many times? If you first reveal your crossdressing as a fetish and a sexual thrill, it might be easier to swallow for your partner than a full crossdressing life? If that goes well, you can go further with more ease or back out of it if you see a bad reaction. And after that you can talk about it more easily, if the person is not too purist. If it is, that kind of person probably won't accept normal crossdressing either and you probably would know that too in advance.