Going old in fashion

[baldy1]

Do not think I am being ageist or insulting that is not the aim of my thoughts by any means and I am 65 so I do know a bit about going old, so if you are going old / older do you dress for your age as in sometimes older people may dress a little dowdy when there are still some wonderful styles out there or do you still dress as your younger self because there are some beautiful fashions there for the younger ladies.

I myself still dress a little younger but then seeing me dressed is like the proverbial bull in the China Shop and would never pass in a million years

Thanks in advance

Julie

[Lilly Diadem]

I don't go out so I dress as I like but in general I think my style is age appropriate late 40s/early 50s.
When I bought some shiny front leggings last year my SO was not convinced until she noticed that all ladies around my age (and much older) were wearing them; she still doesn't like them but hadn't noticed how popular they were.

If you don't go out you can suit yourself what you wear as you don't need to blend in.

[Helen_Highwater]

Julie,

I'm the same age as you and I don't view it as dressing older more as dressing with style, having a sense of class.

If you've ever watched the BBC thriller Killing Eve, Eve's boss Carolyn, a mature woman, always dresses with such style. Now while her costumes are probably designer wear and out of my price range it is possible to find things on the more budget end of the High St that enable you to look good, appearing you have a better bank balance than you actually have while looking classy.

There are certain fashions that stay current. Stilettos have been around for over half a century and show no sign of disappearing any time soon.

I wear things to make me look good, not because they're this year's on trend.

[alwayshave]

Julie, I dress my age. When I was younger I even dressed a little older. My wife once asked why I always dress like the mother of the bride.

[baldy1]

Jamie

I think most of use could make a similar comment in our earlier days of dressing

Thanks for commenting

Julie

[Vickie_CDTV]

Julie, I dress my age. When I was younger I even dressed a little older. My wife once asked why I always dress like the mother of the bride.

Interesting, I thought I was the only one who did that when they were younger. In my 20s I was often told I dressed "too old". I liked the "mother of the bride" look, I didn't care for what the young girls were wearing at the time. I always preferred wearing skirt suits, fancy blouses, classic style heels and vintage style clothing and accessories. Now that I am middle aged, it works well for me. People tell me I dress nicely, not that I am physically attractive, but that I dress nicely and have class.

[Cheryl T]

I think that part of this is that we all love to feel our appearance is attractive and to some extent that means we don't look our age.
With all this "stay home" stuff the wife and I have been watching a lot of youtube of late and with that a lot of makeup videos. The other day she pointed one out to me where the model was 86. She looked 86 before the makeup and hair were done. After she was gorgeous! You would never have guessed she was that old. Before she sat there and everything about her said OLD. After she beamed, she glowed. Her smile was wider and brighter and it totally changed her.
I related as sometimes I feel like that. It could be a drab dreary day and things are ok, but then I'll do my face and fix my hair and I could still be wearing my bathrobe but I will FEEL so much better and more alive.
I don't ever want to look my age until they put me in that pine box. Till that day I want to look younger and feel younger and more alive.

[MsEva]

Julie, I dress my age. When I was younger I even dressed a little older. My wife once asked why I always dress like the mother of the bride.

That is a cute look Jamie! I am dressing more my age these days. I even went with a wig to match my former prematurely gray hair. My hair started changing to white/gray around 25. My mom said I would be totally white by 50 and she wasn't too far off. Durn her. Just like the more mature look on me. Seems more genuine.

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I may be older but that doesn't mean I have to look it.
My idol in that respect is Raquel Welch. Do you know she's going to be 80 !! I mean look at her. She's beautiful and you would never guess she's that old.
I don't want to look my age and my wife tells me I look much younger. I don't dress like a 20 something but I'm not going to look like a grandmother either.

You look stunning by the way Cheryl. She is one of my favorite femmes to emulate. Wish I could pull it off. Dolly Parton is so hot too.

[Patience]

My wife once asked why I always dress like the mother of the bride.

What was your answer to her?

I think my preferred styles of clothing fits the range from mid-late 20s to, I dunno, 60s and beyond. If I were an exclusively at home dresser, this would be a non-issue, but as I like to go out, I hope my look will make people take me seriously. One does not get that looking like a hussy.

[Teresa]

Julie,
I'm 69 , if you take a cross section of women my age some will dress older and some will dress younger so really there are no rules . There are so many variables to consider , do you want to blend in or integrate or do you want to make a statement . I accept I dress younger than my years because I'm continually told I don't look my age , I take care of my figure , that's an important point as some women often give up trying because they hate their figure .

I can relate a funny story with dressing and wearing makeup . I was chatting with a dog walker , she's widowed with two grown up sons and we got onto the subject of makeup . I would call her a " handsome woman ", she doesn't wear makeup and she admitted that if she started now her sons would think she was looking for a new man !

It really comes back to how we see clothes and makeup as TGs to how a woman sees it , I'm gradually seeing it that way but it is taking time .

[lingerieLiz]

I dress every day and only wear women's clothes. Have a few male items for doctors, and other functions. I now have a casual life as most of the people in our neighborhood. When I talked to a few neighbor women today we all had on jeans and tee tops just different colors. Ironically we all had about the same busts.

[Maid_Marion]

I dress young because the fit of clothes in the Junior's department perfectly matches my figure.
I think there is some sort of validation in wearing perfectly fitting clothes after years of not being able to find guy clothes that fit.
I could buy very nice professional clothes but that would be over the top for what I've been doing at work.
Though they do want me to take on more management responsibility so maybe I could do that going forward.
Everyone already knows I wear heels and florals to work when I feel like it.

Marion

[Angela Marie]

I have always loved wearing leggings and while they previously were marketed to young people I now see many women my age, 65, wearing them. So do I dress younger than the average 65 year old? Probably, but its all relative. For me style and comfort are most important.

[JaclynL61]

Julie -

My response is much like Helen's. I would describe I as dressing more appropriately for the situation as opposed to dressing older. Years ago, my dressing often involved staying at home. Possibly an evening drive or walk. The shorter skirts were fun, and I did have a better figure for it back then. Now going out and about, running errands, shopping, I try to blend in more. I quickly found that wearing a mini and high heels while grocery shopping draws attention. And navigating those wet tile floors in heels is also a problem!

[kimdl93]

I try to dress situation appropriate. Being past 65 myself, I look at styles that work for women in a broad, mature age group.

[MaryAnn1963]

I just love the older style of clothing, guess it is because I love the old 40s & 5s0 movies too. So, because of that, I tend to dress in older fashions. I like the Mother of the bride stuff... I think it is because the top layer usually hides my arms (I have manly arms) and a 40s style ladies suit with a pleated skirt and jacket with a wide brim hat tipped to the side... to die for! So if your style is older styles, then in my opinion, "style" never goes out of style.

[April Rose]

With a lot more boomer women reaching their seventies and eighties while still active, wearing granny clothes just makes one look old fashioned or out of touch. Contemporary clothes are just contemporary clothes.

Unfortunately for us cross dressers, that means a lot of pants.

I look for contemporary clothes on the feminine side, but it can be a real challenge to get it right.

[Fran Moore]

I like to dress to fit in with the age group that I belong to, but that being said a lot of women will push those boundries and I seem to belong more to that group. The older I get the more I feel that I should dress to please myself and not those around me, and I have given up with trying to create what I consider to be a more perfect female body with padding etc. as I just want to be comfortable more than anything. Diet and exercise are high on my priority list these days and those two things go a long way towards creating a presentation that I feel is acceptable when I look in the mirror.

[Cheryl T]

I may be older but that doesn't mean I have to look it.
My idol in that respect is Raquel Welch. Do you know she's going to be 80 !! I mean look at her. She's beautiful and you would never guess she's that old.
I don't want to look my age and my wife tells me I look much younger. I don't dress like a 20 something but I'm not going to look like a grandmother either.

[Rachelakld]

Totally agree, at 54 I wouldn't want to be mistaken for a hot young trendy babe
Even though most of my clothes are "hand me up" from my daughters

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[Krisi]

My goal is to look like the sister I never had and the daughter my mother never had so I do dress my age. I do want to say though that women my age sometimes wear stylish and attractive clothes and others dress as "Granny" from the Beverly Hillbillies. I'm the former.

[Majella St Gerard]

I wear what looks good on me, age has nothing to do with it. My purpose is to dress as an attractive sexy middle aged woman not a granny. Some people can pull it off, some can't. We have to know our limitations and be truthful with ourselves. Everyone has their own reasons for dressing. I dress to look and feel sexy and I know when I achieve it, believe me I am my own worst critic. I do not dress to look like someones grandmother, I go for the cool sexy aunt. But to each their own. Dress the way you feel comfortable. If it works for you, great. You can grow old and still be stylish and fashionable.
Age is just a number. I'm 57 but when I'm dressed up to go out for the night, most people assume that I'm in my early 40's. I take care of myself and try very hard to stay in shape and WORK on my presentation. That's just the way I feel about this subject. But I am merely a hobbyist crossdresser.

[Stephanie47]

Dowdy: (1) not stylish, drab (2) not neat or tidy; shabby old fashion.

I had to look up the definition as I have not heard the term for a very long time, and, never on this site. I am 72 years old. I'd say the last time I saw any woman who fit that description was my grandmother who died in 1979. Old European woman who wore probably what she was accustom to seeing on aged women in the "old country."

It really comes down to the endless discussions on aged appropriate attire. In a woman's life I think there is a time when the mini skirt and tight dresses do become a thing of the past. I am not referring to some who are living in a fantasy life of years gone by. Somewhere along the timeline of life most women have achieved their goals and are comfortable with themselves. They get what they want on their terms. Maybe that's where age appropriate comes in play. It's a mind set and not just a visual to display herself.

One of the things that seems to perpetuate some societal stereotypes is the models used to depict clothing. I just perused JCPenny's site for dresses. Just about every model seems to be young; maybe in her thirties at most. What's a sixty or seventy year old woman to wear? Anyway, so much for the rambling. For me it is knee length day dresses, =/- two to three inches at the knee. Or a mid calf dress. I prefer prints, especially floral prints. I really don't know what a woman in her seventies is suppose to wear when it comes to dresses?

[docrobbysherry]

I'm 77. And, Sherry is 23. But, she looks ageless!

So, I dress in whatever I like. Preferably pretty, sexy, and/or feminine!

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[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Baldy , I am 77 and I an knock off 10 to 15 years with the proper outfits, wigs & make-up. >Orchid ..oO..