Sometimes things do change with time. I went through a phase where my wife first took back some of the clothes she gave me and said they had be gone and I am free to buy new ones to present situation where she is finally past this stage and give me her clothes that don't fit her or if she orders something that doesn't fit her and she thinks will fit me, she offers me to try. We went from not acceptances, to tolerance, to acceptance. We fixed our marriage issues before my transition with a therapist, so it helped. And still, she needed couple of years to process it all.
