My ex husband obviously no but he hid EVERYTHING .. and I asked him if he had anything he would like to talk about ... when he came out he exploded and I took a backseat to ll things femme and finally shoved out of an exit door . Very sexual fet dresser that thought that meant he was a woman and we should all feel sorry for him . So much stuff hidden that I wouldn't have married him under any circumstances . porn addiction , saw strangers he met online en femme . It was a mess . After he came out he would get really nasty mean if he couldn't dress when and how he liked no matter if it were inappropriate or not and of course his website for his pics that he attracted chasers from . His whole life revolved around it 24/7 . No other interests .

My SO was already this way and open so there was nothing hidden from the beginning , if s/he had not died we would still be together . No wild public sexual dressing/extreme fake submission etc,, this person was who s/he always was .