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  1. #51
    GG Dutchess's Avatar
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    My ex husband obviously no but he hid EVERYTHING .. and I asked him if he had anything he would like to talk about ... when he came out he exploded and I took a backseat to ll things femme and finally shoved out of an exit door . Very sexual fet dresser that thought that meant he was a woman and we should all feel sorry for him . So much stuff hidden that I wouldn't have married him under any circumstances . porn addiction , saw strangers he met online en femme . It was a mess . After he came out he would get really nasty mean if he couldn't dress when and how he liked no matter if it were inappropriate or not and of course his website for his pics that he attracted chasers from . His whole life revolved around it 24/7 . No other interests .

    My SO was already this way and open so there was nothing hidden from the beginning , if s/he had not died we would still be together . No wild public sexual dressing/extreme fake submission etc,, this person was who s/he always was .
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  2. #52
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    Dutchess,
    I know you've had a tough life if feel many of us go through what we do because we wouldn't intentionally make anyone suffer the way your first husband made you . Evenso you still felt you could live with and support another member of the TG community , sadly marriage didn't let you down but life did .

  3. #53
    Just another 'Gurl'
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    I told my wife in January I think it was. We have not talked about it much. A couple of times she has asked me to put on a dress. I have said no, as I am so out of shape and I don't want her to see me while I feel gross.
    Secondly, I believe that as I was not upfront with my wife before we married, I don't think I have a right to push it now. Overall, at least for the moment, I am fine with how things are. She asked me if I would dress around her and I said "I am not sure, especially as I am a chunkdy monkey at the moment."
    At the moment I would say we have a really good relationship. I am not worried about CDing killing it. I am more concerned with the state of the economy and wonder each day what would happen if we lost our income. I think that would be more of a stressor than me wearing a mini skirt, bra, and pantyhose.
    Just another man in a dress

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    Platinum Member Angie G's Avatar
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    Been married for 52 years my wife has known since 2006and still very much in love. my wife even buys things for Angie.
    Angie

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    Silver Member Sandi Beech's Avatar
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    I am approaching 36 years. As I recall I think I started with shaving and wearing pantyhose about 2 years into our marriage. It was really bumpy for a while, so I have to try to dress in secret. She is not tolerant in any way so I have to remove the offending items if caught immediately. On the good side, I guess she now realizes I am not going anywhere after all this time. This is really our only point of trouble as we get along fine otherwise.

    Sandi

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