Don't worry, I take no offense over anything anyone could possibly say to me in a forum post. It's impossible to convey every issue and how they intersect without going further than is allowed on here due to the subject matter of one of the major issues that affects my life and relationship with adult children.
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I have a good relationship with my oldest daughter but I wouldn't think of putting her in that position. Obviously I'm certain she would be accepting and likely relieved to no longer be the focus of family attention. She left a twenty year marriage when she came out and it got pretty messy with extended family but everyone in the immediate family except one religious daughter were fine with it.