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    Is your boob size an important factor in your life?

    There are many sayings "big is beautiful" and "if you have got it flaunt it" and others I suppose.

    Which brings me to the main question is big boob size an important factor to you in that "big is beautiful" and in saying that are your boobs overly big because you like big ones irespective of whether you look right or not or does your boob size reflect how you should look without drawing unwanted attention because you have more than most, or does your size reflect a true body ballance.

    When dressing became a very serious side of my life I did a lot of research, wanting to look right and not wanting to be looked at because I was "way too big" whilst at the same time not wanting to think "these boobs are little more than man boobs". So at that time (105 kilos 6'-6" and 42" chest size) choosing size was a critical point to bear in mind and one breastform site asked for a whole pile of measurements chest, waist, hips height weight and from that i was advised on a suitable size of form. And from then on I was happy with how I looked, everything in proper proportion to my general size.
    Then after a recent blood test revealed high blood/sugar levels (this January) I cut out all sugar in drinks both soft and tea and coffee and beer I also cut out fatty foods, doughnuts and sweets and chocolate biscuits and so forth. From January to this month I have dropped down from 105 to around 93 kilos.

    Now this where boob size comes into the equation, my girlfriend remarked that now I had lost weight my boobs were now too big for the rest of me, and when you think of this, it is true that when a GG loses weight her boobs get smaller as well.

    So I gave this a lot of thought and realised that the new slimline me was "top heavy" so soon I will be receiving new smaller boobs. My new look should in effect reflect a proper boob/body ballance. The last thing I want is to be looked at because of oversized boobs, its an important factor to me.
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    my girlfriend remarked that now I had lost weight my boobs were now too big for the rest of me
    She is right....Unless more is not less.
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    Yep -- large size to hide my belly !

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    Bobbi,

    Each to their own as the saying goes and it's personal choice as to how someoyne wants their "look" to be. Personally my preference is to look average, the Goldilocks rule, not too big and not too small.

    If going out I usually wear my BFS forms sized at a 42C which fitted well and looked I thought of the correct proportions. However since buying them I've gained a little boobage of my own which has had the effect of making me look just that little big bigger. As it stands it's not too noticeable but I would I feel have to go down the route of smaller forms should I get any bigger myself to compensate.

    So yes, I'm with you, being of the right proportions is something I aspire to but as I said at the start, it's each to their own.

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    I am new so just made my first purchase. I have a large body so I settled on 48D, thinking that wold be proportional. It seems right on the edge of too much and my wife has commented a couple of times that I am bigger then her. Not trying to compete there. Trying to lose weight as well, so perhaps smaller is in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jacke View Post
    I am new so just made my first purchase. I have a large body so I settled on 48D, thinking that wold be proportional. It seems right on the edge of too much and my wife has commented a couple of times that I am bigger then her. Not trying to compete there. Trying to lose weight as well, so perhaps smaller is in the future.
    If your wife has said that more than once you should plan on getting something smaller.

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    Size is important only because I want to have a nice proportion. At 5'10" and 220#, I think a C-cup looks nice on me.

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    Sidney, as I am with my smaller boobs.
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    Jacke, I agree with Marion, if your wife has mentioned more then once about you being bigger then her it is absolutely time to go with smaller forms.
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    I consider myself very blessed, I have an accepting wife. Bood size for me was very important and I thought needed for me to get the "look". Yes the bigger is better syndrome. I am 6'3" and 185 to 190 pounds, I'm slim. So one day several years ago my wife and I are talking. She is naturally a large C cup and very beautiful. She is on the petite size so look bigger. I'm dressed in skinny Jean's and a T top that is a little tighter than I'd wear out and I had my D cup bra on. My wife looks at me and stops in midsentence and says "OH NO. Sidney I accept your
    dressing and we have very few boundaries but I'm going to have to add another I'm afraid. With us living in this house MY Boobs will be bigger than yours". I looked down and started laughing and said OK I can live with that. I'll admit I was a little hurt but got over it. My natural boobs are between a small B to mid B because of medication I must take, the rest of me is slim. I can feel the jiggle when I walk. I wear almost exclusively bralette now. I do have four underwire push up bras I wear on occasion for a little bit extra. I'm actually glad my wife made that comment because I'm much happier with the smaller me, so is she.

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    I do have to say that I spent a few years sharing a house with two ladies who were both well proportioned. I admit to trying on their bra's many times (for research purposes), and came to the conclusion that 14D (Australian size), was what I looked best in. I don't actually have to add much more from normal male guise to make it to 14D, and actually, despite the normal guy call of "Bigger is Better", bigger just doesn't look natural, at all. It takes a while, however eventually, like makeup, body size has to be in proportion to your total look, which includes all aspects of feminety.

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    I am very happy now with a 40 C breasts, my shape looks a lot better with the "new me"
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    I have only one breast form, but they are too small and I need to buy some new. Do you have any recomendations or suggestions how choose porper ones?

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    Thebreastformstore has a "tech support line". You can call them for advice. I did.
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    Bobbi, boob size is kind of an important factor to me, but I really don't give it much thought as to how my breast forms look in proportion to my height and weight. I simply just chose size D breast forms, because for me, they're not too big or too small and in my opinion, they do look as though they are almost perfectly proportionate to my height and weight. I do, however believe that they draw some unwanted attention sometimes, but you know what? It sort of comes with the territory and while any attention I may receive from men is unwanted, it's expected. LOL

    I hope this makes sense.
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    Out of everything concerned with dressing it seems to me that breast size is a very important thing to consider at the end of the day; So many costly mistakes can be made regretting buying to big or too small but as Docrobsherry very astutely pointed out it is for some of the time, if one can, to have more than one size of forms to go with ones moods.
    I can totally agree with this but for so many cost precludes the ability to do have more than one pair and so many have to make do with what they have.
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    I totally agree with what is being said and of course we are all individuals, each allowed to express ourselves as we think fit and no it is not right to say one is too big or too small with one exception, my girlfriend was right and whilst I speak of her I must add that where she lives, in her little hamlet, all of them know, have seen and accept my dressing and it was them as well who politely said "he looks better slimmed down but his boobs are too big for him now. Addd to this that I had a good long long look at myself in the mirror this morning whilst getting dressed, with just panties, a bra and my forms and yes now with my weight loss, I concur that they are a bit too big for me. However there are GG's out there with big boobs some overly big and they are quite happy with them whilst other GG's are unhappy with either being to big ( with back and neck problems included) or those that have very little and too are also unhappy. But does that matter? no because at the end of the day it is down to the individual to choose how big or little they want to be. it is personal preference. For me it is having the need to look right, not to be out of place. I dont mind being looked at, these days it is just a passing glance because because I choose to dress to blend but what I would not want is to be looked at because of the size of my boobs. But hey if it rocks your boat go big and enjoy being looked at lol
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    Bobbi,
    WHen I first started dressing is was very important to me.
    But for me as I look back, I now wear smaller forms and as long as I can feel them on my chest I am fine.
    I do have THUNDER THIGHS so I can get have bigger boobs and not look to out of place.
    I just want to blend in (i Hope).

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    Bobbi,
    A very good question , it is something that takes careful consderation . Lets not also forget women usually go with what they're given , some hate having small boos and envy others with more ample ones and some struggle to face the World through having too larger boobs , at least we have a choce .

    It's good to hear about your weight loss but I'm sure you're missing those tasty extras in you life , health does come first however .
    We are all different with weight loss , some women do lose it off their bust and some don't , the factor to consider is if it's lost on the waistline the boobs will look bigger . Most women are usually more concerned about their hips and bottom and then their waistline but not so much about their bust . Which is why I often smile at some members discussing lower padding , most women really don't want to carry that excess which is the point a very good GG friend made to me .

    The bottom line is go with what you're comfortable with , maybe consider if you were female you wouldn't have the same choice .

    Also you have an alternative for boob sizing , if they get too big you could always let them loose and roll down the street !! I still have that vision , sorry Bobbi !

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    To a degree---They MUST be "Big enough" to see that I definitely have them. Yet not too large as to look "Odd" or "Grotesque" on my female Body form or size. A "C" to small "D" cup is perfect.

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    I struggle a bit with this. I have 3 pairs of forms in different sizes, two are silicone and one is foam. The foam pair is a great size and works well for getting shape and a nice look for pictures, but have no natural feel at all. I have a pair of double Ds that I got that I thought would work due to having a broad chest (44 inches) but they really only look good with certain outfits. Most times I end up deferring to a pair of Cs that look quite nice with most of my wardrobe and provide me with some nice curves.

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    There is a whole science regarding boob size for males wanting to look like females. Some of us have a boob fetish and buy the biggest ones we can find. Others, for whatever reason, choose boobs that are too small for their frame. Boobs need to span the chest, from underarm to underarm and meet in the middle. Some manufacturers make different shaped boobs, wide, narrow, etc. Small boobs on a large frame look as out of place as large boobs on a small frame.

    When selecting boobs, I emailed the breastform store with my measurements and they suggested their size 12 which works out to a "D" on me. I thought that would be too big so I chose size 10 "C" cup. After wearing these a while I realized that they were right, a size 12 "D" would be better so I ordered a pair and they are perfect.

    My goal is to look like and pass as a woman, so selecting the proper boob (and hip) size is important.
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    The size is not that important. The proportion is i have a fairly broad chest and i have tried a B cup, it is way too small. I jump to a D and have been happy. However i am look at getting a C to help the fit of some clothes.
    Sara.

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    Krisi you echoed what I did originally but in my case what was right then is different now, I lost weight and "big ones" do not look right on me IMHO others may say "wear what makes you feel good", so all well and good but in a way it is a matter fact of looking right for all occasions, which is the ethos by which I live with now
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