I've been curious about men but also terrified. I live in a very conservative area. I cant dress fully out in public as it would never be accepted from society. But i'm not wanting to be in an unsafe situation and people say to be in public and not somewhere no one knows where you are. So I wanted to ask, has anyone ever met a man out who knew you were dressed but everything was hidden (underdressing) as sort of a first way to step out in public (so that not everyone around you in public knew you were CD) and maybe get a feel for a person? Not sure if anyone has done this or what people think as steps.