Due to male pattern baldness it is a wig for me. My natural hair is grey now, so a grey wig works nicely. It is also necessary to complete "my look;" how I would appear as a woman of my age. Having read many of the comments it seems wigs erase any vestiges of male existence. I don't understand some of the comments about male vs female hairlines. Lately, I have seen many women on television with very high hairlines. It's as if those women have accepted a high hairline and do not style it so their hair comes down further on their foreheads. I figure they are accepting themselves.