Don't think anyone here has mentioned it, but here goes...

I need to talk to son about CD. The problem is he's heavy into redneck/hill billy mindsets lately and an old photo of Dad CD for a party, was
"wow, I really didn't need to see that" and "can't erase that".

Any one with experience talking to those subcultures? I don't know what can be said and what is a red flag.