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    What is Your Fondest Memory of Crossdressing?

    For me it was the first time my wife saw me wearing a bra. I was 27 years old at the time and we had only been married about 10 months. A few months before, my wife had discovered my only article of female clothing, a bra, that I had hidden among the male clothing in one of my drawers. Not surprisingly she reacted badly to the discovery, including tears, anger and all the normal questions. In the intervening months, she said little about the bra, but at least said I could keep it.

    On this particular evening, we were watching television and cuddling together on the couch. She was caressing my chest and playing with my nipples, something she knew I loved. I made the comment that if she kept doing that I was going to want to wear my bra. To my amazement she said go ahead.

    I went back to our bedroom and put on my bra, filled out the cups with some of her panties, and replaced my shirt. When I returned to the living room I was both terrified and excited, but mostly embarrassed. She quickly eased my fears and we began cuddling and caressing again. After a few minutes she took me to the bedroom where we completely undressed, except for my bra, and made love.

    We have now been married 35 years and since then she had seen me countless times in bras and other items of lingerie. Still, that first time remains my fondest memory ever of crossdressing.
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    My first time out with sister friends and having dinner. Thanks, Sherry and Cindi!

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    I would have to say my fondest crossdressing moment would be when my wife saw me dressed in my lingerie for the first time. She was very accepting of who I am.

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    Mine was very similar, my first positive "out" interaction.

    In my 20s I spent a beach week in and out of sundresses, skirts and my first ever bikinibat the cabin I was staying at. One afternoon I was on the deck reading in my bikini and had been pulling up a sarong when people came by. I wasn't paying as much attention as I thought I was and the guy staying in the neighboring cabin came up. I assume I looked like a deer in the headlights but he was very casual and exchanged a little small talk before heading in. It was only a few moments but the fact that the world didn't end and there and no angry mob appeared was a beautiful eye opener!

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    So I have been closet dressing with lingerie since 10 or so. My first time to fully dress was just this weekend. I went to a well known transformation service and bought all I needed. The artist made me look super. I had always planned to go back to male before leaving. I was so embolden by her work that I left enfemme and went back to my hotel. I did run in quickly however. Still what a first experience.

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    I am of a Panty wearer, one time I bought a Warner Panty, it had the perfect nylon and spandex material, I always keep looking for something like that.
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    The first time I met a fellow CD for coffee fully en femme, I was terrified! But the world didn't stop turning, and the coffee experience turned out to be "just no big deal to others" and a life changing moment for me.

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    Me too...the first time my wife saw me fully dressed. She smiled, complimented me and gave me a hug. I tentatively asked her if she?d like to see my lingerie. She paused and said ?if you want to?. I was a little hesitant, but I took my skirt and blouse off. There I was...full makeup, wig, bra, forms, panties, pantyhose, a half slip and heels..all black. She smiled and so did I. She asked me if I was comfortable. I just smiled. It was also the first time she teased me about finding underwires, pantyhose and heels comfortable. She hates all three...interesting..I can?t wait to put on...what she can?t wait to take off.

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    What a wonderful moment between you two. LOVE LOVE LOVE!

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    Going shopping and to lunch with a friends mom she told me to wear a nice dress and heels. His parents were hosting a formal party and he wanted me to come as a girl. She treated me as if I was her daughter. She came into the dressing room while I tried on dresses and after we picked one out she picked out the lingerie I needed to wear under it. The store staff told me how pretty I was.
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    I'd have to say that it was the first time she reached up under my dress to explore without warning...

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    hello Katherine,
    probably the fondest memory is when I came out to my wife and she said "Is that all. It's only clothes, I thought you were going to say something important!"
    I am still trying to process that!
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    Oh so many to choose from... first time in full drag? First time performing? First time asked to perform? Pretty much any year at DragCon? All pretty wonderful.

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    My fondest memory was the first time I tried on and bought a dress in a Dress Barn. The sales associate was so polite, helpful and completely non-judgmental. I was underdressed and pulling that tress on over my slip was just heavenly. My wife was away and I took advantage of the situation to shop and wear my new wardrobe every day.

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    Being out for dinner and accepted as ?one of the girls? with a group of GG?s.

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    Every time my wife says, "I think we need to dress up this weekend!" Which happens fairly often. We have our girl's nights where we dress up in anything from dresses to just some skimpy lingerie and do out nails and sit and talk or watch a movie. Some evenings I get so touched that she has accepted this so well I get emotional and teary eyes. It was just a short few years ago I was afraid the marriage was over.

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    Years ago when I had a real day job, I had to work at a exhibition in the Boston area, I boldly took from my wife's closet a red gown that I loved along with a bra, pantihose and some makeup and stashed it in my suitcase. It was the first time I had ever dressed and in a hotel away from home. Not much to add to that but it was the big, first time, and I drove home underdressed.
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    This will probably be viewed as a cop out, but my fondest memory is the last time. After 50+ years of hating myself for this, finally embracing it six years ago, I find complete joy each and every time I do so (I only do so with the intention to either go out in public or take photographs to share on my blog and Flickr page). I have been out well over 500 times, never a negative experience, almost always blissful. I have received hugs from total strangers (no more, these days, sadly), thousands of complements, had drinks and meals purchased for me, shared meals or cocktails with people I did not previously know, etc.... Every time out, a treat, especially now!
    Visit Kandi's Land (http://www.kandis-land.com/) daily! Nothing but positive and uplifting posts!
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    I'm very new to crossdressing but I don't think I will ever forget how it felt trying on a dress for the first time. I actually let out a soft moan as I felt the dress encase my skin for the first time. And I knew in that moment that my life will never be the same.
    I'm just starting on this new journey. I'm still figuring things out. Who knows where it will lead?

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    For me it's got to be when I plucked up the courage to go out dressed for the first time. It was a feeling that I will never forget.

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    There are two that really stand out.

    The 1st is the very first memory I have of wearing my mother's stockings. I must have been four or five years old. I was seated at a desk in the living room by myself and I had removed all of the cushions from the sofa and stood them up on end around the outside of the desk legs so that no one in the house could see under the desk and see my legs. I remember the feeling of sheer joy. I absolutely adored wearing them, I remember my mother eventually seeing me in them somehow and helping me close the gaps in the cushions so no one else would see me. I really had no idea how blessed I was in that moment.

    The 2nd time was when I became accomplished at doing makeup and saw Felicia for the first time. This was only in the last couple of years and I had worked so hard to get better for a few months. I remember finishing up and looking in the mirror and having my breath taken away. I felt much like that younger self when I put on the stockings. Just a complete sense of sheer joy and happiness. It also changed me within forever. ❤️

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    Heres one....

    Ive shared many times that I dont dress much...didnt dress for the first time in my life until 10 years after marriage. My wife knew from the beginning, but we just never tried it, even though she knew I wanted to. She isn’t great at gift giving or surprises...just not her thing.

    Anyway, about 18 years into our marriage she planned a weekend getaway, and had made all necessary purchases to complete the look. She knew what I liked, what I wanted, and surprised me. It’s the only time shes done that. Our drive to the location was a good five hours away, and I could tell something was up, because she was so excited by something. It was a great trip. Since then she has encouraged me to dress more...it did pick up to maybe 10 times a year but has settled down again.

    Maybe she’ll surprise me again ;-)

    Ultimately, she does it, because she wants me to be happy and she knows that I care more about her happiness than I do about mine.

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    After a makeover. I was relatively new to dressing and drove about 100 miles away to get a makeover. I have to admit I loved the look. Anyway I drove home and went to my bathroom to change. I looked in the mirror and thought "I really do look good. I should finally go out" I had never been out in public during the day completely dressed. Even at night I only rode in the car. I decided to take the plunge. I went to a market away from my home. As I got out of the car my stomach was in knots. I passed a man on the way in. He gave me a look that I guess can best be described as a flirt. I did some shopping and went home. No problems. From that point on I never had a problem going out dressed.

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    Spending the entire day dressed as a woman and enjoying it

    Went to my friend's house where I changed into Jamie wearing my new blouse and skirt. He drove us to Biloxi and went to a couple of the casinos At one of them we had lunch(I was still Jamie) and I was a little nervous but the staff there treated me well. Enjoyed the lunch and then went to the mall and and a park and finally to our motel room. This was the first time I spent the entire day as Jamie and I enjoyed it. Of course I did love wearing the new outfit. I was now confident going out in public dressed as a woman.

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    A few years back, I was traveling on business and had a day and a half to myself at the tail end of the trip. I spent that entire time dressed. Went shopping, sightseeing, and even met someone on line who I had drinks with later on. That was the first time that I actually spent more than a couple of hours as Monica and it was just amazing.

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