I think that man in the feminine world is the masculine tag which integrate to their inner sexual belonging attraction feelings , for example ...women are attracted to men by nature and vise versa ,,,, where they feel the need to expose their beauty and loveliness to their loved ones ,,, .......that is why this contradiction in the image process( as crossdressers) becomes exhausting to them ....they want to feel that men needs their love and attention and not the opposite reaction ,,I think women ( especially wives ,girlfriends )looking at us as women might be scary for one reason ,,,,they might think that we will no more desire their beauty anymore and become the compitition ....and believe me that is scary to them .....that is why we should always show our love and support to them all the time as women and as a loving partner as well .what do you think ????