Hi all.
I wanted to share something that recently happened to me and made me feel a lot better around my crossdressing.
A bit of context for those who do not remember my introductory post. I am a closet CD, 27, married to a wonderful wife ( bisexual and the most open mindend person I ever met) and I live in Germany.
So that is what happened. I was talking to my wife during one of my ? guilt trip? moments. I still do not fully accept the fact that I like so much to look like a woman sometimes.
She is really into all the psychology behind sexuality and gender. At some point she asked me ? Have you ever asked yourself whether you might be genderfluid/bigender or not ??.
A new world opened to me. I did not know anything about bigender people and I really find myself in this category. Individuals who have two genders ( non biologically) in them and who like to switch between them.
That would explain a lot why sometimes I want to pass as a very masculine man and other times as a very feminine woman.
It might seems stupid but finding a ? label ? which describes me made me feel more confident in who I am.
In near future we have plans to explore more this new identity of myself; or better the identity I was not aware of.
She does not care at all about which gender I decide to display and that made the happiest man on Earth.
I hope this thread could help somebody else in my situation.
Have a wonderful day and sorry for typos!