TLDR: How often is it reasonable for me to underdress when I've just come out to my wife who disapproves?
Once a week?
Twice a week?
Should there be no restrictions?
Should I ask for permission?
Longer version:
I've mentioned elsewhere that I came out to my wife near the start of lockdown. I did so partly due to the stress of lying to her for a few years about my crossdressing but also the stress of knowing that I was going to have no chance to crossdress whilst stuck at home for the immediate future.
I stopped all CDing as my wife didn't want me to do anything, whether she was in the house or not. I respected her view on this and did nothing for a number of months.
However, after a number of months, she relented and allowed me to underdress in tights/nylons.
Given the opportunity and lack of CDing, I perhaps went overboard and underdressed for three days in a row. To be fair, I do so to relieve stress and she allowed me as she knew how stressed I had become.
This was too much for my wife. She lost it and seemed to pull back on our relationship citing that given an inch, I've taken a mile.
So question to all you lovely people, having recently (<6 months) come out to a wife, how often do you think would be too often to underdress?
Am I being unreasonable by trying to do so on my terms?
Should I ask my wife for permission every time I want to undress?
Should I just go ahead and do it and deal with the fall out?
Unfortunately there's no manual to tell you how to act with your spouse after announcing that they like to CD. Funny that!
I'm sorry if I don't reply as I don't get much chance to check this site but any comments are gratefully (and normally late at night with no prying eyes) received.