My wife and I have been talking about my cd'ing lately. We came to an understanding that it's just something that I am going to do and I won't dress around her. I will still keep her informed of what I'm doing only to avoid and hiding and secrecy. We both seem to come a happy situational agreement with this whole thing. She was going to her mother's today and wanted to tell her I wasn't too keen on that idea. Also my wife has always suspected that a particular individual in her life is secretly crossdressing...well she got confirmation of that today and in the process ended up telling her mom that I also crossdress...She thought it was ok. I wasn't clear enough that she wasn't supposed to talk about it. So cat's out of the bag with the mother in law. but she's fine with it and a good secret keeper. The next holiday get together may be weird though. lol
I am glad my wife has someone to talk to about it now though. She really needed someone close to her to discuss it with. But a little peeved that she outed me...oh well. :/