I recently traveled out of town to visit relatives. After clearing security at the airport I changed into women's designer Silver brand form fitting jeans, with padded hip pads and padded panties; padded bra, tank top with push up bra and flip flops that showed off my painted toe nails. IT WAS EXHILERATING being so girlie in public.
I stayed at 2 different Airbnb's and told them that I was gender fluid and sometimes dressed a bit on the femme side. Neither said anything when I registered or checked in. The first house had a pool in back yard and first day I layed out in bikini bottoms and days 2 and 3 wore both the top and bottoms. The owner said "oh, so that's what you meant when you said you were gender fluid". I just smiled and said yes, hope it's ok and she said, as long as the essentials are covered, wear what makes you happy. Just be aware the houses in the back are 2 stories so they can see in the yard. See attached pics.
The second Airbnb was a condo with a community pool. I wore a skirt and gender neutral tshirt to the pool with bikini bottoms under. There was a male/female couple and a single male at the pool. No one seemed to notice my blue string bikini bottoms or newly pierced belly button or the faint tan lines from wearing the bikini top at the other Airbnb. The owner of the Airbnb was so cool and accepting, even complementing some of my outfits.
I also went hiking wearing leggings, women's tank top and visible bra straps. Was so exciting to be out and girlie without worrying about getting discovered by someone I know.