Hi Frax
You posted that your wife told you not to get carried away.
This should be your starting point you need to talk with her.
It should be easier as she know you have an interest in female items.
You need to ask what she means by going too far. Communication is vital.
However don't make any promises you can't keep.
We don't know how your wife feels.
Reading here you should know they are lots of different situations some of which you have mentioned.
DADT (don't ask dont tell), You never leave the house, underwear only, no wig.
One thing I do know is that if you don't ask it could all go wrong very quickly.
You have been given similar advice from women here who have been in the same position as your wife.
These days you have the luxury of a support forum, that the older members here did not have.
