For me Its totally the feel. I am hypertactile due to being on the autism spectrum. The feel of feminine things, satin and leather is one thing that draws me in. In my current relationship and employment I am able to dress in full lingerie daily. Bra, panties, hosiery, suspender belts or girdles. My day just goes better when im dressed like this. Im pretty sure dressing is part of my stimming for my ASD. My partner is quite ok coming home from work and seeing me in a satin maids dress and full lingerie and heel cooking dinner for us.