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    Roberta,
    Taylor describes the situation very well , to some it's more for support for others it's purely a social get together , the fact wives /partners also attend is wonderful again some are looking for support from other wives and others enjoy the chance to have dance and a meal on special occasions .

    I lived with a reluctant wife who made my life very difficult , the damage was done when I first came out to her , there wasn't anyway back from that moment but it took time to realise it .


    Some get together and make a weekend of it , usually the male will dress for the evening and then do male mode to do some sightseeing the next day .

    Krisi ,
    I guess I was lucky in that respect , my wife accepted me going to a social group so she would sit in her car a short distance down the road form our drive entrance and call me on the mobile phone when it was clear to leave , I usually arrived home after midnight so she was usually in bed . At that time my groups were about forty miles away .
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    Yeah, but as I have said a CD/TG support group that allows spouses to attend and even lets them participate is not the same thing as a support group strictly for spouses of CD/TG.

    That's what spouses of CD/TG have actually said to me.
    Last edited by Robertacd; 11-24-2020 at 11:57 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teresa View Post
    To some people the fear of running into people you know is a problem with a wife /partner , they may not know you but they will obviously know your wife.
    Quote Originally Posted by Krisi View Post
    This is the real risk of going out in public with your wife or girl friend. While you may not be recognizable in your wig, boobs and big butt, your wife will not be so "disguised".
    Imagine, if you will, that there is a perfect solution to this -- and a fun one, at that!


    You see, this is an awesome opportunity for your SO not only to get all dolled-up, too -- but also doing it as a "disguise." You know, for *her*.

    - Does she have short straight blonde hair? Throw on a longer wig & now she's a curly redhead.
    - Does she not wear glasses? Now she does!
    - Does she normally do her make-up in a certain way (if at all)? Do it differently, with different shades.
    - Does she wear a certain style of clothing? Totally change it up with some new things purchased specifically for this!
    - Does she typically wear flats? Some new shoes can change her height.
    - Has she always wanted bigger boobs? Well, now's her chance!
    - Etc., etc.


    Y'all need to give this a whirl.

    Gotta make it fun for them, too, ya know (while putting their mind at ease)...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertacd View Post
    Yeah, but as I have said a CD/TG support group that allows spouses to attend and even lets them participate is not the same thing as a support group strictly for spouses of CD/TG.
    Fair point but it has nothing to do with the original post. Misty wants ideas on how to get her wife to go out with her while dressed. A support group "strictly for spouses" doesn't achieve that.

    As I mentioned in post #28 I convinced my wife to go out with me to a CD support group meeting that included partners/spouses. It solved several security concerns for us as it was 70 miles from our home town, a private location, limited to CDers and their partners/wives (20 to 30 on any given meeting night), and guest speakers. It i included a pot-luck meal, a short formal meeting and a support/education discussion.
    Last edited by Taylor186; 11-24-2020 at 08:14 PM. Reason: clarity

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    Taylor,
    I do agree with you , as far as the thread question is concerned I don't see the point of splitting hairs over the difference of socialising or supporting . Consideration has to be given to the GGs present so the basic rules are no fetish wear and no dating . We do have some fun and at times run charity events to raise money for good causes . One group meets is an open hotel situation and the other in a private meeting room personally I prefer the hotel but some need the privacy of a meeting room .
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    Quote Originally Posted by ellbee View Post
    Imagine, if you will, that there is a perfect solution to this -- and a fun one, at that!


    You see, this is an awesome opportunity for your SO not only to get all dolled-up, too -- but also doing it as a "disguise." You know, for *her*.

    - Does she have short straight blonde hair? Throw on a longer wig & now she's a curly redhead.
    - Does she not wear glasses? Now she does!
    - Does she normally do her make-up in a certain way (if at all)? Do it differently, with different shades.
    - Does she wear a certain style of clothing? Totally change it up with some new things purchased specifically for this!
    - Does she typically wear flats? Some new shoes can change her height.
    - Has she always wanted bigger boobs? Well, now's her chance!
    - Etc., etc.


    Y'all need to give this a whirl.

    Gotta make it fun for them, too, ya know (while putting their mind at ease)...
    That would be fine if the wife was in to that sort of thing. Mine wouldn't be and I would think most wives wouldn't be.

    Remember, it is you who gets a thrill out of going out in public pretending to be a woman, not your wife.
    Krisi

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    Krisi,
    I hope your comment only applies to your situation , I would not insult anyone by going out pretending to be a woman just for the thrill of it . My daughter wouldn't accept it , she trusts me not to give her any problems and I respect her trust .
    The real me , no going back.

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    I?m so envious of the ladies that have gone out with their wives I hope to some day venture out shopping or see a movie while dressed with my wife.

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    This is my worst nightmare - I really don't feel comfortable with how I look, and really don't want my wife to see me dressed.

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    My wife has been out with me three times with me all dolled up.
    Twice were for Halloween.
    And one of those times was literally last night. I was TDY over Halloween so we made up for it last night at the mall.
    You can see the details in the Picture Gallery "At Target".

    My wife supports my dressing up for YouTube videos, Rocky Horror Shows, and doing stand-up (the latter two obviously on hold for obvious reasons).
    I explained to her that such public outings can literally help me with stand-up material and ideas for YouTube videos.

    I'm not sure if any of those reasons will help you.
    When the weather is nice I like to wear a Utilikilt out and about; that gets a lot of looks but is super comfortable, it is just like wearing a skirt.


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    We are our own worst critics sometimes.
    I've gone out alone, met with friends, and have been out with my wife numerous times. All are usually both nerve wracking, as well as exiting and fun (for me, anyway) all at the same time.
    Im not 'out' to anyone but her, but I can't deprive my(fem)self of a little bit of validation. I'm glad I shared all of this with her. She's pushed me to get out there, and to gain confidence.
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