My wife and I were talking the other day and the issue of National Transgender Remembrance day came up. Now my wife knows I dress. I told her on our 2nd date. She is supportive, buys me clothes when we are out, etc. She prefers not to go out with me, and asks that I be very circumspect around our neighbors. Reasonable requests which I am more than happy to follow. Anyway we were talking about transition. She asked if I had ever considered that. I told her perhaps if I were younger, not married with no children possibly. She was quite surprised; but she knows I would not consider it at this point. My family comes first and I think the consequences would be too much. In any event she knows I identify as Transgender; at least to myself. It was somewhat of a relief to at least acknowledge that; but I think she has known all along.
