Is there any way to restore intimacy when wife is not attracted to my gender fluid issues? She does not like seeing my hairless body and I have dysphoria about having body hair. My wife wont go to counseling. She says its my problem you go. I have gone and I accept myself. We have been living as married friends for 2.5 years I miss intimacy and so does she. It makes me feel awful that my isssues have caused this.