Two more things I am curious about .
1) Would you welcome constructive Criticism?
Once in a while I notice things and want to p m and just give some advice.
I know with Sherlyn when we first met it hurt her and took it as a put down ....she quickly realized I only meant it out of caring and welcomed it. So wondering in general would that be hurtful or helpful?
2) Do you have a middle name for your girl side?
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1) Absolutely. My wife gives me valuable feedback on how I look, both positive and negative.
2) My full girl name is Amanda Louise Hunt. Louise being my wife's middle name and Hunt being my mother's maiden name.
1. I would love it! Please and thank you. I just want to be close to passable and any help is appreciated.
2. I don't. My real first name is both a male and female name, so I might use that.
1. Certainly! Feedback helps us to improve and to grow.
2. I haven’t yet come up with a middle name, but have been giving it some thought lately.
1) Well, OK. "You still walk like an ape and stop man spreading when you sit." There, I got it in on myself before anyone else did."
2) Not yet but, how about, "Kinky"? Carla Kinky Westin.
Please keep these two question things coming.
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
I guess if you must. It's a bit tricky as I don't think most handle it well.
2. I could never come up with one so I gave up.
I would welcome constructive criticism.
When I joined here, I was very early in admitting who I am, so I just feminized my real name. I have since decided on Melanie Anne.
1) I would if I did post pictures or present myself in the flesh. When I did go out with the intend of mixing with human on Halloween I did get some nice comments and affirmation of my look. That was decades ago when I was a lot younger and my facial skin was smoother and had less wear and tear.
2) No, but, maybe I should consider it. It was hard enough using my first name. Stephanie is the female version of my male name. Stephanie is the name my mother wanted for a daughter which is her mother's name (European version). Dad's sperm fooled her. When I joined this forum I was estranged from my sister whose name is Stephanie. Now that we have reconciled I would consider choosing another name, but I have no idea what that would be.
1.) I take all criticism with a grain of salt! It is welcome and I would consider/think about it! Then I would decide whether to take/use it or not!
2.) Mae is my middle name! It was my mother's as well!
I enjoy the two question thing! Keep it up!
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Constructive criticism is great. It really is the best way to improve yourself. We are often blind to our own weaknesses.
I have not thought about a middle name. But I think i will use Anne.
Sara
As long as its constructive Criticism, it is always welcome.
My Name is above may avatar
I don't criticize my wife and she doesn't criticize me. But we do make a lot of suggestions for each other. And they are considered and taken or not. I think it is all a part of being a couple.
My middle name is Marie. Of course that is for Gretchen. My male first and middle name is Mark Anthony which I have always disliked. At first I used a female name based on that, but that didn't last long. Didn't want to be reminded of my male name.
1. Caring constructive criticism is always good and welcome.
2. No, in fact I only have one name Jacke, like Cher. Have felt no need for more.
1. Constructive criticism is very welcome.
2. No. I don't actually use a female name. I can shorten my given name to it's gender-neutral form "Nic". (My forum pseudonym is completely unconnected to my real name.)
"The only way is onward. There is no turning back."
Just my opinion, there should be an abbreviation or emoji or something when we do constructive criticism as some people are just plain mean . not necessarily here but on the Internet as a whole and people don?t always differentiate. Someone here once told me my jaw was square like theirs and my wig would look better in a certain other cut. I didn?t really ask and was kind of mad at first. I got over it and realized they were 1/2 right
Cc is fine
What you see of my name is all there is. For a while I’ve just been going by Joss
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1. Yes. My wife knows I want her observations, yea or nay. She?s been such a great help, especially with makeup.
2. I do not have a middle name.
1. Constructive criticism is very much welcome. Often I sense when I post a photo that much could be improved in my dressing or makeup or even photo skills. Too often I get polite, "that looks nice" and it is much harder to improve.
2. No middle name for Tiffany Brown as of yet.
1) Depends. I'm often attacked or criticized for the way I dress. I know it's often catty jealousy. But, I still don't enjoy that.Constructive criticism has a different tone to it. Which I welcome!
2) No
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1. Constructive criticism is very welcome. To the source -- keep in mind what the individual is going for.
2. Middle name? I haven't even chosen a LAST name!
(1) there is no doubt it, I would always accept any kind of comments.Originally Posted by Di
(2) Never gave thought to a middle name. I just liked Sara and then my last name (Also) means I am a male also.
While I welcome and do my best to apply constructive criticism I am currently wardrobe challenged and no longer have the thrift store dress I'm wearing in this photo. The $25 costume store wig is falling apart and I can no longer wear it so I know where I stand with that as well. If the constructive criticism is that I should shop more I am currently unable to do that either. I know this photo isn't much but right now it's all that I have and I decided a dowdy photo is better than no photo. It's complicated but I hope to be able to do more and am working towards that goal. If you want to offer constructive criticism in spite of those things that is fine with me.
I don't have a middle name for my girl side. I may have told this story but one time years ago I had to select a user name and came up with something that comes close to my name on the spur of the moment. It wasn't meant to be presumptuous as in "I think I'm a movie star" but simply a hastily chosen screen name. I had to add the 01 when I registered here as it said the name was already taken. If I ever decide that going out in public en femme will be of benefit to me and I manage to collect some nice clothes and wig I would likely change it. For the time being seeing as I am still dressing in private I don't see any need to make a change.
DI, I like this two question idea. It is interesting learning a bit about the other members. This is a good idea.
1) I've always welcomed constructive criticism now and in the past. I want to be the best I can be.
2) My first name is also both male and female, but I like Franni for short. I haven't actually considered a middle name, but I think I might like that!
Criticism can sting - but it it's given with the intent to help, I'd welcome it. If it's just to point out my flaws, thanks but I'm all too aware that I'm not perfect.
Unfortunately, all I've gotten from the Mrs. is things like "You'd make a really ugly woman" I want to say in my most sarcastic voice "Gee, honey? you Think so? I love you too!"
Lin is, of course, my middle. If I ever went full time, I might change the spelling, since it carries an (unearned) Asian flavor spelled this way.
1) Would you welcome constructive Criticism?
Of course. It would help me better myself and dressing.
2) Do you have a middle name for your girl side?
I do. It's Nicole.
1. Of course input would be welcome.
2. My full feminine name is Kimberly Marie Cross. Marie is after an old friend of my mothers who was drop dead gorgeous.
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