I was recently talking to a woman (possible relationship interest) and had full disclosure of my doings. Over the weeks of conversation this woman actually went out and bought high heels that she thought Ide like to see her wear. She talked of previous relationships where she would dress up in lingerie and heels to look sexy only to be ignored. ( this seems to be a common thread with 50ish women I know) My conundrum is I know ide be very happy being with a woman who basically dresses like I like to as ive never had a relationship with a woman who does dress like this.
As she became more invested in our online relationship she did pull back a lot on her sex/fetish history that she seemed to be ashamed of. I think we were both taken aback at our acceptance of each other in the begining but her wanting to please by dressing for a man was still there. My question for mayself is can i give this up ( dressing) if im living with a woman who does? Not sure how im going to move forward here she got scared and ran yesterday saying we are too different. Ive blocked her on fb just so Im not tortured by my loss.
thanx for listening.