1) it has definitely progressed from a desire at 5 or 6 yrs old to wearing bra under my shirt.
Now full dressing with make up, forms, shoes, bra, panties and fem clothes. The internet helped me understand I was not a weird as I thought I was.
2) I've been dressing in front of my wife for many years now. Maybe not as full as when I plan to go out. Her only caveat is don't get caught by people we know.
Great questions Di!