Um.. okay I was simply recounting how I felt trying to come out as a Crossdresser compared to coming out as Transgender.
I understand how hard it is to try to explain why you like dressing up like a woman when you swear you are not attracted to men and that you are not Transgender, without it sounding like a creepy fetish. (I am not sure if I even managed to accomplish that) And lets be honest, that is how most people see CD'ing.
Frankly I gained nothing out of telling anyone besides my wife. As the few GG's I came out to basically said "What you and your wife do in the bedroom is your business..." and one for sure just kind of stopped talking to me after that.
I have to add that coming out as Transgender was a lot easier mainly because people understand what being TG means.